She Left You, So Now What?
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If you are human being, you are born with the capacity to love. Nearly every single person on this planet wants to connect on this level. Being in love is one of the most cherished emotions on earth. We are hardwired to seek it.
I know it’s cliché to say, but many countries have been invaded, wars fought and companies taken over for the love of a special woman. The book Think and Grow Rich list having the wrong wife as one of the keys to failure in business!
On the flip side, history has also shown the power of sharing your life with the right woman. Many presidents, CEOs and high performers also list their wives as the leading influence in their success.
Remember watching Rocky I, the moment when Adriane woke up from her coma and told Rocky to kick Apollo Creed’s ass. That scene inspired us all because it’s innate in you to be motivated by the love of that special woman.
But we all have to start somewhere in that journey to find “her”. With that said, along the journey it’s safe to say that you will get your heart broken. It may have already happened. It could have been in school when your high school girlfriend broke up with you. Maybe you felt a pain in your heart you never felt before. You may not even remember how you got over it.
But as you got older, the stakes got higher, the love got stronger and now a days you are not as emotionally pliable as you were in grade school.
Now it feels different. Maybe this most recent break-up was the big one. Maybe you feel like she was the ONE, and you lost your soul mate. Do you feel like you haven’t been the same after breaking up with her and you don’t understand why? After break ups, many guys feel like they are going crazy, some suicidal. A lot of us men have a difficult time getting over a woman and moving on with our lives.
It even affects the your day to day life. You find your self with lack of sleep, lack of concentration at work and lack of a desire to do anything. Everything seems to be at risk.
There are a million reasons break-ups happen. Right now the reasons don’t matter. The bottom line is that you are hurting and need to heal fast. Don’t worry, you are in the right place. With the help of this book, you will again be the king you deserve to be.
Start with a big deep breath. (inhale through your nose out through your mouth)
In this book you will find the answers. I guarantee some of them will not be the ones you want to hear, but they will help you heal. I promise.This journey could take a few months or a year. It’s up to you. Your primary focus right now should be on the commitment to improve yourself emotionally every day, no matter how small the percentage.
I’m not a self-improvement GURU. I’m a regular guy who is a life long student of personal development. When my high school sweetheart and I of 16 years broke up, I looked for a book for MEN like this one to help me. I didn’t find one. So, I went hard at healing myself, as well as therapy and reading as many books as I can. I also was guided through it from quality people.
This is my compiled journal. I am sharing it with you. The world needs you. Your family needs you. If you have children they especially need you. Most of all, your higher self needs you at your best! This book will guide you. I’ll see you at the top.
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She Left You, So Now What? - Chris Carpenter
She Left You,
So Now What?
Men’s Guide to Healing
Chris Carpenter
The techniques presented in this book are for informational purposes only. As each individual situation is unique, you should use your own discretion. The author expressly disclaim responsibility for any adverse effects that may result from the use or application contained in this book.
Copyright © 2012 by Chris Carpenter
Smashwords Edition
This book is dedicated to my friend Gunner
who helped me break through and find my space to heal. I’m grateful for everything I’ve been through. It has really made me stronger. I wish the same for you.
Contents
Rules ix
Introduction 1
Chapter 1 MR. TOUGH GUY
What about you? 3
Chapter 2 HEALING
The cycle of healing 9
Chapter 3 THE ENERGY OF LOVE
How the spiritual side of love works 17
Chapter 4 THE EMOTIONAL SCALE
Climbing your way to the top 24
Chapter 5 BE KING
Rebuild your kingdom 34
Chapter 6 CHEATING
Getting through it 4
Introduction
If you are human being, you are born with the capacity to love. Nearly every single person on this planet wants to connect on this level. Being in love is one of the most cherished emotions on earth. We are hardwired to seek it.
I know it’s cliché to say, but many countries have been invaded, wars fought and companies taken over for the love of a special woman. The book Think and Grow Rich list having the wrong wife as one of the keys to failure in business!
On the flip side, history has also shown the power of sharing your life with the right woman. Many presidents, CEOs and high performers also list their wives as the leading influence in their success.
Remember watching Rocky I, the moment when Adriane woke up from her coma and told Rocky to kick Apollo Creed’s ass. That scene inspired us all because it’s innate in you to be motivated by the love of that special woman.
But we all have to start somewhere in that journey to find her
. With that said, along the journey it’s safe to say that you will get your heart broken. It may have already happened. It could have been in school when your high school girlfriend broke up with you. Maybe you felt a pain in your heart you never felt before. You may not even remember how you got over it.
But as you got older, the stakes got higher, the love got stronger and now a days you are not as emotionally pliable as you were in grade school.
Now it feels different. Maybe this most recent break-up was the big one. Maybe you feel like she was the ONE, and you lost your soul mate. Do you feel like you haven’t been the same after breaking up with her and you don’t understand why? After break ups, many guys feel like they are going crazy, some suicidal. A lot of us men have a difficult time getting over a woman and moving on with our lives.
It even affects the your day to day life. You find your self with lack of sleep, lack of concentration at work and lack of a desire to do anything. Everything seems to be at risk.
There are a million reasons break-ups happen. Right now the reasons don’t matter. The bottom line is that you are hurting and need to heal fast. Don’t worry, you are in the right place. With the help of this book, you will again be the king you deserve to be.
Start with a big deep breath. (inhale through your nose out through your mouth)
In this book