Spiritual Abundance: The Quest for the Presence of God in Daily Life
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Spiritual Abundance - Robert Wise
SPIRITUAL
ABUNDANCE
Spiritual_Abundance_0001_001The Quest for
the Presence of God in
Daily Life
ROBERT L. WISE
Spiritual_Abundance_0001_002© Copyright 2000 by Robert L. Wise
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Published in Nashville, Tennessee, by Thomas Nelson, Inc. in association with the literary agency of Alive Communications, 7680 Goddard St., Suite 200, Colorado Springs, CO 80920.
Scripture quotations noted NKJV are from THE NEW KING JAMES VERSION. Copyright © 1979, 1980, 1982, 1990 Thomas Nelson, Inc. Scripture quotations noted NASB are from the NEW AMERICAN STANDARD BIBLE®, © Copyright The Lockman Foundation 1960, 1962, 1963, 1968, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1975, 1977. Used by permission. (www.Lockman.org.) Scripture quotations noted NIV are from the HOLY BIBLE: NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®. Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society. Used by permission of Zondervan Publishing House. All rights reserved. Scripture quotations noted RSV are from the REVISED STANDARD VERSION of the Bible. Copyright © 1946, 1952, 1971, 1973 by the Division of Christian Education of the National Council of the Churches of Christ in the U.S.A. Used by permission.
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Dear Joanna
(excerpt on p. 58) from Living by the Word: Selected Writings 1973-1987, copyright © 1988 by Alice Walker, reprinted by permission of Harcourt, Inc.
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Wise, Robert L.
Spiritual abundance : the quest for the presence of God in daily life / Robert L. Wise.
p. cm.
Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN 0-7852-6798-0
1. Spiritual life—Christianity. I. Title.
BV4501.2.W57413 2001
248.4—dc21
00-046535
Printed in the United States of America
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 BVG 06 05 04 03 02 01
To
Michael Wise,
number twelve in a wonderful
long line of splendor
Spiritual_Abundance_0001_001Contents
Part One
DISCONNECTING: THE LOSS OF SOUL
1. The Journey Begins
2. Into the Void
3. The Loneliness
4. Soul Eaters: Spiritual Cannibalism
5. The Contemporary Hunger
Part Two
CONNECTING: FINDING OURSELVES
6. Finding God’s Thumbprint
7. Life Abundantly
8. Christians Discover Spiritual Abundance
9. The Abundance Prevails
10. Spiritual Discernment
11. The Renewed Quest
Part Three
RECOVERY: RECLAIMING OUR SPIRITUALITY
12. Finding Greater Spirituality: An Exercise
13. Living the Abundance
Endnotes
Bibliography
PART ONE
Disconnecting:
The Loss of Soul
ONE
The Journey Begins
Once upon a time I lost my soul.
No horrendous sins or salacious twists. Mephistopheles didn’t appear one midnight offering immortality in exchange for my heart’s desire. Actually, worthwhile pursuits demanded most of my time.
The busy life of church work, family, being a parent to four children, trying to pay bills without enough money, and intending to do everything well simply took its toll. I lost touch with the center of my being. My soul just disappeared beneath the weight of sacks of groceries, piles of bills, college degrees, and the burden of too many worries and not enough hours in the day for extended prayer, personal reflection, and solace. My spirituality withered from neglect. Strangely, I didn’t even notice the loss for a long time. Mistaking busyness for meaning, activity for purpose, the sheer inertia of preoccupation with good things kept me from realizing that I’d lost contact with the best thing. Sixty-hour work weeks have a way of blurring one’s vision.
I knew that my spirituality had been slipping. Actually, the word spirituality is probably the most used and least understood concept in the English language. We casually use the word to imply getting in touch with God. Spirituality meant that what I couldn’t see with my eyes, I would experience in my heart . . . or something of that order. Whatever. Nevertheless, this most important ingredient in my well-being seemed to have slipped away from my life, and I knew that my inner gas tanks
were approaching empty. More than anything in the world, I needed to find spiritual abundance.
DISCOVERING THE ZOMBIES
I remember a growing awareness of being surrounded by multitudes of other people struggling with the same problem of spiritual anemia. I saw their images in nearly every movie I attended (and I saw at least one a week). Anti-heroes had become the new heroes; degenerate people with degrading values gained cinema star status. Gangsters, psychotics, and the promiscuous were Hollywood’s fascination. The music industry bestowed on us rappers, Madonna, Mick Jagger, and a host of rock stars (some of whom quickly jettisoned themselves into eternity with drugs) for our adulation. Something was seriously amiss.
Having been in the ministry for many years, I looked to my fellow clergy, brothers and sisters in Christ, to offer me the first clues about my own loss—but I didn’t get the help I needed. While many were the finest people in the world, some ministers operated with ambition that would shame a politician. Many professional clergy preached about the problems of the multitudes but were indifferent to the pain of individuals. Others operated the local church with the same spiritual concern that the branch management of Sears used in selling tires. Spirituality was definitely missing. The truth was that most of the clergy I knew were too preoccupied with their own problems to be bothered with mine. I needed something more than what these types had to offer in spiritual vitality.
Many churches attempted to replace spirituality with something.
In the 1960s, the theological enterprise became serious about the business of creating God in our own image. Theologians poured theology into sociological molds. Correct belief was out; nervous activism was in. Much of the subsequent social action did not have even a hint of spiritual reality. At the other end of the spectrum, evangelism often was not helping people recover their spiritual abundance as much as it was changing their intellectual outlook by creating an emotional moment of decision for Jesus.
Rather than the emptiness being filled with the indwelling Christ, the end product was signing up the starving for church membership. At the time I didn’t understand what I was seeing, but I recognized the vain and empty terrain, the wasteland of T.S. Eliot’s hollow men. I sensed that I had plenty of company struggling with the same emptiness.
LOOKING FOR THE
TREASURE IN THE FIELD
My problem first manifested itself as a hunger, an emptiness, a haunting inner loneliness I couldn’t fill through any relationship. Like so many people, I really didn’t know how to practice the faith I believed in. I certainly was as straight and correct as an apostolic shepherd’s crook, but the issue was that I believed in an idea that didn’t seem to be doing anything for me.
One afternoon, I collapsed across my desk, fatigued. I had worked as hard as I could that day. With honest faithfulness, I had not broken any great commandments, but neither had I been filled with joy and purpose. I was so tired that tears easily filled my eyes. I’d done as much as I knew how. And now I was exhausted.
To gain the world and lose one’s soul is one thing. Being a good suburban church member and losing your psyche was quite another. I was impoverished and in deep need of respite. More importantly, I recognized that I was another of Eliot’s spiritual scarecrows. I needed help.
A quick look back over my college studies revealed that I had spent a great deal of energy studying emotions and how psychotherapy worked. I didn’t need more insight into the mind. My learning equipped me to help others struggling with their confusion, but it didn’t straighten out my own emptiness. Reading the latest novel or a new book on the latest advances in theology couldn’t satisfy where I hurt. I needed instructors who could teach me the meaning of spirituality and help me find a renewed vital relationship with God.
Good things were happening at churches all over town, but I couldn’t seem to find anybody who understood the difference that spiritual abundance could make in my life. Most of these people had settled for getting by
as enough. When I opened my Bible, the Gospels screamed at me that this promise of fullness was really there for me, but I couldn’t seem to get my hands around it. And then I accidentally (on God’s purpose) stumbled across a Benedictine monastery at Pecos, New Mexico. Of course, I was a Protestant and couldn’t see where I would have any place in such a medieval establishment as (of all things) a monastery.
Nevertheless, I had heard that the Pecos religious community of men and women devoted themselves to the pursuit of spiritual abundance through study of the Scriptures, contemplation, worship, and the insights of depth psychology. They were eager to share the paths they had found through the detours set up by the modern world. I knew that I needed something silent, isolated, and filled with people who lived the secret of a dynamic Christian life.
After putting my house and family in order, I took a sabbatical, moved into the monastery, and began the rigorous spiritual life, starting every day with community morning prayer at six o’clock. The ensuing weeks proved to be the most valuable of my life and restored the spirituality I needed. During meditation time, I found stepping-stones. Hidden trails appeared in Scripture. I recovered secret spiritual lagoons and cool grottoes of prayer discovered by ancient saints. Each place was a new soul center where spiritual abundance had been hidden.
After six weeks of isolation, study, prayer, and lots of silence, I was ready to come back. The remote mountains around Pecos, New Mexico, had turned out to be filled with new life. On the morning that I drove away from this quaint hideaway, I knew that my candle was lit with a new light. I was going home a new person.
In the following pages, I don’t offer you a road map so much as voices, sounds that I heard in my struggle to find spiritual vitality. As I made my pilgrimage, the calls of these saints, friends, and sojourners kept me on track and helped me hear again the sounds of eternity. The excerpts from their writings aren’t offered as a quick read but for slow and careful contemplation. Often some of these simple quotes opened doors that I didn’t realize had been tightly closed. My prayer is that each page will help you find the same spiritual abundance that has come to mean so much to me.
Finding yourself is not an inward trek like peeling away the sections of an onion until you hit some secret inner essence. Rather, you are looking for the fingerprint of God in your life. The task is to follow the direction and advice of those who already know the inner way well and have been touched by Him.
I found that the need is for centering. While pursuing a college art degree, I studied ceramics. Throwing pots on a wheel proved to be one of the most exhilarating experiences of my life. I became so addicted to the wonderful feel of wet clay oozing between my fingers that time would lose all meaning. I was learning that the secret of working the potter’s wheel is the same as recovering one’s spirituality. Finding the promised abundance requires work.
In Centering, Mary Caroline Richards’s marvelous little book on poetry, pottery, and personhood, she wrote:
As human beings functioning as potters, we center ourselves and our clay. And we all know how necessary it is to be on center
ourselves if we wish to bring our clay into center
and not merely to agitate it or bully it. As organisms in the natural rhythms of birth, growth, and death, we experience metamorphosis throughout our lives, as our bodies grow and change from infancy to ripeness, as our capacities for inner experience enlarge and strengthen.¹
Centering is our all-important clue for where to find the spiritual reality that can invigorate our lives.
The wheel is spinning, and the time has come. Transformation is waiting in the wings. Let’s see if we can find our way to the center of your universe . . . and to spiritual abundance.
TWO
Into the Void
We need to know something is missing before we can go looking for it. Until people realize they have misplaced their spiritual center, religious talk doesn’t connect with them on a significant level. To recover the vitality I had lost, I found that it was necessary for me to get in touch with some important dimensions of my life. To begin my search for God’s reality in my life, I needed to start with what the loss of spirituality looked like. The displacement of spiritual connectedness takes many shapes and sizes.
On April 20, 1995, the day after the terrorist bombing in Oklahoma City, Joe Davis discovered that his baseball coach was killed in the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building. On the day of the funeral, Joe’s mother brought the twelve-year-old to talk with me. Joe thought I could tell him why someone would blow up a building, killing 168 people, injuring more than 500 people, orphaning 30 children, and leaving 219 others with only one parent.
Everyone who lives through terrible and traumatic times asks Joe’s question many times. Why do human beings inflict such pain on each other? Could the loss of spiritual sensitivity offer part of the answer?
Talking with Joe, I became aware of a new aspect of the tragedies filling the history of the twentieth century. We have become accustomed to explaining all deviant behavior in psychological categories: bombers, murderers, thieves, and rapists are labeled psychopaths, sociopaths, psychotics, and character disorder cases. But do any of these diagnoses answer Joe’s questions? No. Perhaps contemporary psychology missed the most important category of all: loss of the spiritual essence that makes human beings different from any other creation!
Is it possible that sane people are capable of committing horrible deeds of malice and abuse? Can people lose their perspectives so completely that they hurt others and remain totally indifferent? The answer is painfully obvious. Of course they can. They do that every day of the week.
While loss of spirituality is gradual and a matter of degree, it produces disconnection with God, others, and oneself. Perspective goes askew and consequences are clouded. Actions no longer have meaning. Behavior becomes self-indulgent. Rational people do very irrational things.
Christians must be able to make contact with the void in society and speak to the emptiness. Unless Christian people can understand the signs of the illness, their remedy of faith will never be used.
Loss of relationship with God takes many forms: banality . . . materialism . . . duplicity . . . meaninglessness . . . emptiness . . . indifference. In this chapter are