The Secret of Succesful Relationship
By Isaac Jacob
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Building a loving union which withstands curveballs that life throws sometimes is a goal for most of us.
However, with today's relationships getting increasingly complex and fragile, many people are wondering how to achieve their happily ever after.
A relationship is a work in progress and finding the right way to nurture and develop it can be a steep learning curve.
This book discusses important lessons to help those who are currently dating or in a marriage build relationships that will enrich lives.
It is an insightful companion providing readers with opportunities to reflect and develop their relationship knowledge as they are going through the chapters.
The book offers an expert perspective on the following topics and more:
- Understanding Psychology of Relationships
- The Way to an Effective Relationship
- Understanding Love
- Ingredients for Successful Relationships
- Benefits of Building a Mindful Relationship
- Things to do That Will Keep Him in a Relationship
- Let the Small Problems Stay Small
- Mistakes to Avoid in a Happy Relationship
- How to Increase Love and Affection in a Relationship
The secret of a successful relationship was written by Isaac Jacob.A relationship expert who has built a career as a counselor and speaker. He delivered speeches at numerous events and conferences in the UK, Europe and Africa. He has been married for over three decades to his lovely wife Christy with whom he has three children.
Isaac Jacob
The secret of a successful relationship was written by Isaac Jacob, a relationship expert who has built a career as a counselor and speaker. He delivered speeches at numerous events and conferences in the UK, Europe and Africa. He has been married for over three decades to his lovely wife Christy with whom he has three children.
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The Secret of Succesful Relationship - Isaac Jacob
Introduction
Before you can begin to repair your relationship, you first need to figure out what it is that needs to be fixed. If you go to a doctor because you feel that you aren’t well, the doctor will check your whole body and ask you several questions before you are diagnosed and a remedy is prescribed. In the same way, it is important to look at all aspects of your relationship to determine where the problem lies and how to fix it. It is very seldom that there is only one person in a relationship that is in the wrong. The most important part of your journey towards healing your relationship will be your willingness and ability to be honest with yourself. It is not easy to own up and admit that you are the cause of some of the issues in your relationship, but if you are willing to do so, you will have taken a huge step in a positive direction.
Be honest about your relationship. Couples are often in denial about the state of their relationship and just keep on plodding through one day after the other with a vague hope somewhere in the back of their minds that things will become better of their own accord. Of course, this never happens, and the downward spiral will continue until the relationship reaches a crisis point or disintegrates completely. The love game is a bit more complicated than it seems. Most women, right from a tender age picture love and family to be a perfect and flawless affair. They believe that it is a puzzle that has every piece falling in to place without a struggle in the world. In the beginning of a relationship, men tend to do their best to chase after the woman and make things work. But after a while, roles tend to change as the woman chases after the man to keep the flame burning. Things only go on a downhill after this and they are left to wonder what really happened.
The mistake begins when a woman invests much more emotion than the guy does. This outwardly makes it seem like she's begging and getting desperate for love and affection. Well truth be told; this never works on any man; in fact, it pushes them even further away. If you want to learn the correct tricks and tactics to earn his love and affection, then you better take it from the experts. Men have been wired in a specific way that never changes. Working around this will see to the success of your relationship.
Earn the Attention
You need to know that men are programmed to chase and hunt and not to be the prey. The first mistake that women make is to chase after men hence leaving them with nothing to do in the relationship. The more you invest in the relationship, the more he withdraws hence leaving you with all the donkey work that will clearly yield no result. This will only end up with him losing interest in you regardless. On the other hand, women tend to think that the same measure that they give is the same that they will receive. It will be welcomed at first, but it tends to get old real fast hence the relationship fizzling out soon after. Giving too much of yourself will make it seem like you are too desperate for him. He will think that he is too good to be with you hence pushing him to someone else. This is just the way men are wired.
This however does not mean that women should neglect their men and apply zero effort in keeping their relationship afloat. This is where women are required to use their feminine instincts to know when enough is enough. Give bits of it and leave him to play his role; the chasing. Play your part and leave him to play his. This is the only way to keep both parties invested in keeping the relationship exciting. Always keep it in mind that men will never want to have something that is too available or easy to attain.
Chapter 1: Understanding Psychology of Relationships
In terms of things people depend on the most, relationships are the single most powerful influence in the world. Relationships make the world go round. I’m not just talking about romantic relationships, but all relationships. Parents and children, teachers and students, bartender and customer. I have seen that when people feel valued and respected, they are more open to having a good time. When they have a good time, they remember, and they tell their friends.
Before a salesman gives his pitch, he’ll ask a customer questions in order to build rapport. This relationship-building step is important, because it makes the customer feel more at ease and more likely to make a